It’s true that I created this site to reach out to other parents who are dealing with the issues of cleft lip and/or palate as well as people who want to learn more about what’s involved with using the NAM. But I also wanted to show parents who are expecting a child with a cleft that these babies are normal, healthy babies in most every way except for the anatomical issues that accompany the cleft itself. Emily is happy, sweet, healthy and a joy to us each day. I had lots of fun folding laundry with her sitting in the circle of my legs. She really enjoyed grabbing all the clothes and trying to stuff them into her mouth (notice she’s wearing no NAM – this as just after her bath).
Here’s one happy, naked baby enjoying a bit of laundry time
Thank you for your blog “Cleft Stories.”
Emily looks like a very sweet baby, with bright eyes and a beautiful face. I am a dental school candidate and am interested in using my (what I think are) artistic talents to specialize in orthodontics and work with a team to help children born with cleft palates. Worldwide, it seems, there is a lot more going into research and development of practices for cleft reconstruction.
You are right–children born cleft are normal, wonderful babies. They deserve to be loved no matter what they look like, but they also deserve the chance to go through life not being judged by their appearances–but by their character. I believe that reconstructive surgery gives them that chance.
Very best regards, Rachael Franklin
Thank you for your comment, Rachael, and good luck with your career. It’s truly a noble profession helping these kids and there is a desperate need for orthodontists trained in NAM (I had to throw that in!)
Best,
Jackie